To those who indignantly ask "How can you plan to have a Mardi Gras?"
How about we agree not to have Mardi Gras this year, if the rest of the country agrees not to have Christmas.
Fair enough?
Many people don't understand that Mardi Gras will come when the calendar says it does no matter what we do or don't do-- and as long as there is at least one New Orleanian who wishes to observe Mardi Gras, there will be a New Orleans Mardi Gras. The only question is how big the celebration will be.
Good article from the Picayune:
Triumph over sorrow is our M.O.by Jarvis Deberry
"
come celebrate
with me that everyday
something has tried to kill me
and has failed." -- Lucille Clifton
We are alive.
Ask us how our thoughts could turn to celebration after we've suffered so much, how we could think about Mardi Gras even as we continue to suffer, and that's the only answer we can provide.
We are alive.
Yes, we've lost things. We've lost homes. Big ones, little ones, shotguns, camelbacks, cottages, mansions. We've lost neighborhoods. Rich ones, poor ones, mixed ones. Loud ones, quiet ones. We've lost schools and congregations. We've lost jobs. We've lost our sense of community, our sense of security, and some of us may feel that we've lost or are losing whatever grip we had on our sanity.
We've lost people. Not just random people, either, but loved ones: mamas and daddies, marrains and parrains, our neighbors, our classmates, grandparents. So many grandparents.
You ask, who in their right minds would think of this as a time to plan a celebration.
We would.
We who had death lapping at our ankles. We who had to crane our necks for the next breath. We who hacked our way out of our attics. We who returned to homes that were moldy and muddy, homes that had fallen down, homes that had been washed off their foundations and had moved on down the street.
It might not make sense to you. Perhaps you hear our plans and ask, "How could you?" Try to understand. This is what we do. This is who we are. Defiance defines us. And at this time and in this place nothing needs to be more assiduously defied than death itself.
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